It’s not unusual to whisper to your dog, “At least you understand me!” This preference for dogs over people is more common than you might think and is gently explored by psychology. Interestingly, it does not mean a rejection of humanity, contrary to popular belief. Let’s delve into what experts have to say about this fascinating topic.
Human disappointments and emotional scars
Human relationships are complex, filled with joys but also judgments, unmet expectations, and sometimes betrayals. These experiences can leave deep emotional scars. For someone who has endured rejection or trauma, turning to a dog can be a protective refuge.
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A dog does not judge your past or your flaws. Its affection is steady, and its love is pure and unconditional. Psychologists call this “nonverbal social support”. Studies in anthrozoology, the science of human-animal interactions, confirm that the comfort perceived from a pet can be as strong, or sometimes stronger, than that from a human, especially during challenging times. A dog offers a safe and reassuring presence that many struggle to find elsewhere.
A simpler, honest connection with animals
Contrary to the stereotype that preferring animals means antisocial behavior, psychology suggests this choice can actually point to extreme emotional sensitivity or “hyper-empathy”. Some people feel others’ emotions so deeply that navigating human interactions becomes exhausting.
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Human relationships often demand decoding hidden meanings, intentions, and complex emotions. However, a relationship with a dog is far more straightforward; their emotions—whether joy, fear, or contentment—are seen as simple and honest.
American psychologist Stanley Coren, an expert on canine intelligence, explains that dogs are masters at reading your body language and tone. For someone highly empathetic, this nonverbal communication can be soothing and effortless. It’s not about escaping people but choosing a less emotionally draining connection, one that refreshes your social and emotional energy.
Dogs as a natural remedy for anxiety
Many people prefer dogs because of the need to feel useful and the search for a calming bond. For those who have experienced trauma, live alone, or suffer from social anxiety, the outside world can seem overwhelming.
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Dogs offer predictability and structure. Feeding, walking, and caring for a dog create a sense of stability and responsibility that, according to psychology, can be incredibly therapeutic. Research shows that simple interactions with animals can lower blood pressure and reduce cortisol, the stress hormone.
For introspective individuals or those wishing to evade social stress, dogs act as protectors, calmers, and constant sources of comfort. Their silent companionship can ease anxiety and offer emotional healing.
From my own experience, I’ve noticed that after a long day of confusing social dynamics, spending time with my dog feels like pressing a “reset” button. His wagging tail and happy eyes provide a down-to-earth reminder that connection doesn’t need to be complicated to be meaningful.
What do you think about this unique bond between humans and dogs? Have you ever felt more understood by a pet than a person? Share your thoughts, stories, or questions below, and let’s explore this heartfelt topic together!
I trust a dog that doesn’t like a person and I don’t trust a person that doesn’t like dogs. I’ve learned not to expect much from people and they STILL never fail to disappoint me.
I completely agree. My dogs got me through my divorce 10 years ago and are the sole reason I’m still here. Their ability to love regardless of short comings will never be matched by humans. They truly are mankind’s best friends
I have to agree. I have learned that my 2 dogs can determine a lot about a person before I do. They have been right every time.
That is the most truest answer ive heard. All day.I
Agree my dogs always tell me the truth about people.
Very true..😊👍🐕
My dog recently barked NON STOP at a friend/co worker recently. I was confused.
Couple months later, she betrayed me in an ugly way. Cost me my job.i knew, but didn’t want to know…..?
That is the most truest answer ive heard. All day.
I feel a genuine love from my dogs that is unhampered and always consistent. Humans, not so much.
Dogs don’t hurt your feelings and ignore you! They love you unconditionally the moment you come through the door! They can’t talk but Happy to see you! All my life an animal lover! We have a lab dog the way he moves his mouth it sounds like he is saying” Hello” Jeanie Loveland
I think your analysis is spot on. I feel that people are constantly using and abusing me, but dogs offer me pure love, no demands. . My rest and love mostly come from my dog.
Dogs are loyal where people are only out for their own agenda
I have just lost my loyal dependable and constant friend, I had Archie nearly 14yrs, I prefer the company of animals than disloyal two faced humans
I am grieving more for my Archie than any human including my father
I learned at an early age that dogs are trustworthy and humans are mostly not. The love from a dog is indeed unconditional and the love from, probably most, people comes with strings attached.
It’s a very powerful bond that is hard to explain and understand unless you’ve experienced it. I had to let go of mine a couple of weeks ago and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do he was almost 15yrs old and I had him ever since he was 4 weeks old. He was there for me when my life got turned upside down. And that was an eye opener for me realizing that certain people in my life that should’ve be there for me weren’t and turns out never will be.
Let’s hear it for the DOG’S!!!! They have been a constant in my life. I’m getting older now and have two geriatric dogs. I hope they go before me because these guys think I hung the moon. God knew man would need “a real best friend”.
I’ve always said you’ve never been loved until a dog loves you.
I agree they cuddle with us and love us true companions who don’t ignore us . Always by my side, looking at me with love in his eyes.